Why is This Night Different?
Pesach has always been my favorite. My parents ran a bakery, so our home was Hametz Central. Two nights before the holiday, mom and dad sent my brothers and me to bed early. Then they stayed up almost all night scouring the kitchen, changing the dishes, bringing out our Pesach treasures. We’d wake up to a whole new world. That magical day, my grandmother and her sisters would descend on our home to cook…chicken soup with knaidel, gefilte fish from scratch, brisket, potato kugel, tzimmis, and compote…until the whole house reeked of tradition. Jewish history was not an abstraction in our home. We feasted on it.
The Rabbis of the Talmud engineered a revolution when they moved the celebration of Pesach from the Temple of Jerusalem to our homes. Our kitchen table would be the altar, our meal the offering, and we – each one of us, the priests. Children would be welcomed, their questions and songs celebrated. And all of us together, responsible for bringing the presence of God into the rite. Not Levites, or Rabbis, or sacred officiants, but every one of us is duty-bound to tell the story of liberation and sing the songs of thanksgiving for the miracles we have known. And at the end of the Seder, all of us open the door to Elijah, and declare our hope for a tomorrow more peaceful, more blessed, more gentle.
This year, perhaps more than most, we need to taste our history – its bitterness together with its sweetness – and to imbibe four full cups of Jewish hope. We need to say, as Jews have said in each generation, “Because of what God did for me when I came out of Egypt…” to shake off cynicism and despair, sadness and worry, and to join in singing a loud and joyful song of hope. Hope is the heart of the Jewish people. And even if the world is still far, far from redemption, Dayenu, we will sing of hope.
May your home be filled with the spirit and song of this great holiday.
Hag Kasher v’Sameach. For a joyful, sweet and peaceful Pesach.
Rabbi Ed Feinstein
Dayenu! Moments
Valley Beth Shalom celebrates Passover with Dayenu! Moments
Dayenu, the lively melody we sing every year at our Passover Seder, carries a deep wisdom. Dayenu celebrates each time G-d miraculously intervenes into the story of the ancient Israelites. Dayenu provides an outlook through which to live in gratitude and find meaning in our experiences.
May we be blessed this Passover holiday to replace the limitlessness of desire with joy for what we already have – what is already Dayenu – "enough".
Share your Dayenu! Moments with our community on Social Media by mentioning @valleybethshalom and using the hashtag #vbsdayenu when you post.
Schedule of Passover Services
Thursday, April 21
Candlelighting 7:12pm
Friday, April 22
- 9:30am: Pesch Yom Tov Services (On Site and Online on Facebook and YouTube)
- 6:00pm: Erev Shabbat and Yom Tov Services (On Site and Online on Facebook and YouTube)
Candlelighting 7:13pm
Saturday, April 23 – Shabbat and Yom Tov
- 9:00am: Torah Study with Rabbi Ed Feinstein (Online Only: Streaming on Facebook and YouTube)
- 9:30am: Shabbat, Pesach Yom Tov and Yizkor Services (On Site and Online on Facebook and YouTube)
- 11:30am: Yizkor (On Site and Online on Facebook and YouTube)
VIEW/DOWNLOAD OUR YIZKOR BOOKLET 5782 - 6:00pm: Evening Minyan (On Site and Online on Facebook and YouTube)
Pizza Time! Dig in at 8:10pm
VIEW/DOWNLOAD OUR YIZKOR BOOKLET 5782
Passover Resources
- Secrets of the Seder With Rabbi Ed Feinstein
- Pesach Guide 5782 (Rabbinical Assembly)
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Hadar’s new video series, “Kashering Your Kitchen With Rabbi Ethan Tucker,” to help you prepare your kitchen for Pesach. - View/Download the VBS Passover Haggadah
- VBS Family Seder Ideas for Children and Families
- Teen Seder Ideas
- Rabbi Schulweis' Reflections on Pesach
- Rabbi Feinstein's Official Tips for a Better Seder
- Ideas for the Solo Seder
- Haggadot.com - Making your own Haggadah at Home
- The 30 Minute Seder® Haggadah
- USCJ Passover Resource Page
- Jewish Grandparents Network Passover Resource Page
- 18 Doors Passover Resource Page (formerly Interfaith Family)